A virgin to the blog, yes that is what I am. So forgive me if I falter.
My mind races with pages of random thoughts, unsure of where to stop or to begin. Will wing it by wondering why so many females will in 'my' opinion degrade themselves to once again in 'my' opinion gain attention.
As I observe a number of women, young ladies, etc. I have noticed many, that have been in a relationship that did not end amicably, tend to offer themselves up to the next available bidder not the highest. I see nothing more than a lot of self-degradation and I don't think they realize it. These young ladies find it increasingly necessary to outwardly express "I need a man!!", " Who wants to be my toy tonight?", "I'm down for the dirty" (I laughed when I heard that one), and in the words of Salt-n-Pepa, "I'll take yo man!!" Really? Is that truly necessary? These phrases don't scratch the surface of what I've heard. The words that escape from the mouths of these ladies is equally as degrading. Sometimes worse than any sailor I have come across(no offense to the sailor).
I wonder if they were to step outside of their box for a few minutes and view their photo op, would they be pleased? Would men 'truly' find this culture of women attractive?
On the flip side, perhaps these tendencies and so called confident traits would be best suited for behind closed doors. I'm inclined to believe an ample amount of men would adore the sauciness of such in their mate.
Keep in mind ladies, just as you may not want or be attracted to the man in the powder blue polyester suit, white socks and black Stacy Adams. The man may not want or be attracted to the woman that wears 'NO CLASS'.
Don't feel that you are losing your identity by not being so crass, it's just a matter of identifying who you really are and wish to be.
Some may be offended others will just ponder. Those that are offended will 9 times out of 10 be those that my thoughts apply to.
I'm just sayin'...an observation made.
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