Random thoughts
The weather has changed, some choose to move on, others choose to make the moves.
Summertime, a natural aphrodisiac.
Is it the short flirty skirts and bare legs with strappy sandals that put it in motion for the men?
The thrust of the chest after the 5 am run and 6 am workout that emits the feeling of Cheyenne pepper for the ladies?
It's Summertime, a natural aphrodisiac.
Is it the smiles received from the eyes or just a matter of feeling good. The art of pleasing or receiving pleasure while listening to the melody of the summer breeze. Hmmmm.
It's Summertime, a natural aphrodisiac.
The dreams that set the stage.....sitting outside your door, the alluring scent of every inch or the sand beneath your feet while embraced by a rain shower.
It's Summertime, a natural aphrodisiac.
Oh my, Oh my. Imagining encircling you with arms open wide. Imagine the satisfaction. No rush, no rush. Head to toe....
That Summertime Aphrodisiac.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Sunday, June 12, 2011
With Adversity Comes An Advantage And A Choice To Make A Difference
I'm winging it. So much to say and oftentimes I just don't know where to start. So here it goes. There may be repetitious thought patterns, again so much to say with difficulty organizing those thoughts.
In times of adversity we often find ourselves wallowing in self-pity, depressed and viewing life's events as a constant setback. We allow adversity to take control creating self-doubt in conjunction with the self-pity. We constantly ask the questions, "Why?", "Why Me?", "What did I do to deserve this?" Or the "I must not be living right." We can't allow adversity to weigh heavily upon our shoulders. We must rise up and stand, facing it head on. We must use it as a tool, a hammer to breakthrough that which is trying to hinder us. The moment you allow adversity to plague you is the very same moment you have allowed your strength to falter.
Cast out the self-pity and doubt. Flourish in the fact that you have made a difference in someone elses life. Relish in the fact that you have greatly influenced someone else that has come into your path. You must realize that your path has already been charted so bask in the light, which guides you into the unbridled path that has been paved for you. Your light is your strength, your faith and your ability to realize that others learn from you as you learn from them. You may not know and you may not understand the purpose of your path but you must accept that which cannot be changed and caress that which can and move on. We must focus on the positive within the negative and rebound from it.
Adversity is a challenge to be conquered, pushed aside to make room for the next. View it as a stimulant. Without it, we often become too relaxed in our ways, taking life for granted and putting off that which can be done today for tomorrow, a tomorrow which is not promised. Adversity should be looked at as a means of education. It makes you think and of course when you think of ways to turn that negative into positive you are in turn stimulating your mind.
The knowledge received from mischance is phenomenal. From that knowledge you must take note that the simplest of conversations between you and a teenager, a co-worker, a friend will have a lasting impression. There will always be something that you share with someone that educates another in some way, shape or form. This should make you proud. Proud of who you are, proud of what you have gained, proud of where you came from, proud of your ancestors that faced adversity in its most disapproving of times and proud to share your adverse moments with someone else as our ancestors shared their moments with us. Remember when you help others you in turn help yourself.
In the eyes of adversity you are vulnerable, you're a pawn in a game of chance. However if you view adversity as an aggressive advantage you will come forth with vigor and education. You will have the realization that soiled moments or passages in our lives can be cleansed and forever inspiring. Once you bathe yourself in the inspiration received you will then find that not all is turmoil and tranquility will soon be a more frequent occurrence. As time passes when someone asks, "Have you exercised your faith in the eyes of adversity?" you can say YES with conviction!
The sooner you take action and put your desires and dreams into play, the sooner you will see that adversity is truly a tool to aid you in your goals. Not only will you be aggressively using it to your advantage but also you will have longer to enjoy your goals and dreams once attained. Every day you allow your life to be ruled by adversity is a day YOU allow to pass without action and a day less you could be living with more joy, less pain and true happiness.
It's a matter of choice. You have the choice to make a difference. You have the choice to change your life. You have the choice to conquer and survive that which plants your feet in sinking sand. You were chosen to make a difference in the lives of others. And most importantly God chose you.
So you can choose today to take control of your life, build upon your dreams and aspirations or you can wait until tomorrow, a tomorrow, which is not promised. Sitting back doing absolutely nothing wallowing in the turmoil that adversity has placed in your lap weighing you down, laughing at you as it takes full control. The choice is yours! Make a difference!!
In times of adversity we often find ourselves wallowing in self-pity, depressed and viewing life's events as a constant setback. We allow adversity to take control creating self-doubt in conjunction with the self-pity. We constantly ask the questions, "Why?", "Why Me?", "What did I do to deserve this?" Or the "I must not be living right." We can't allow adversity to weigh heavily upon our shoulders. We must rise up and stand, facing it head on. We must use it as a tool, a hammer to breakthrough that which is trying to hinder us. The moment you allow adversity to plague you is the very same moment you have allowed your strength to falter.
Cast out the self-pity and doubt. Flourish in the fact that you have made a difference in someone elses life. Relish in the fact that you have greatly influenced someone else that has come into your path. You must realize that your path has already been charted so bask in the light, which guides you into the unbridled path that has been paved for you. Your light is your strength, your faith and your ability to realize that others learn from you as you learn from them. You may not know and you may not understand the purpose of your path but you must accept that which cannot be changed and caress that which can and move on. We must focus on the positive within the negative and rebound from it.
Adversity is a challenge to be conquered, pushed aside to make room for the next. View it as a stimulant. Without it, we often become too relaxed in our ways, taking life for granted and putting off that which can be done today for tomorrow, a tomorrow which is not promised. Adversity should be looked at as a means of education. It makes you think and of course when you think of ways to turn that negative into positive you are in turn stimulating your mind.
The knowledge received from mischance is phenomenal. From that knowledge you must take note that the simplest of conversations between you and a teenager, a co-worker, a friend will have a lasting impression. There will always be something that you share with someone that educates another in some way, shape or form. This should make you proud. Proud of who you are, proud of what you have gained, proud of where you came from, proud of your ancestors that faced adversity in its most disapproving of times and proud to share your adverse moments with someone else as our ancestors shared their moments with us. Remember when you help others you in turn help yourself.
In the eyes of adversity you are vulnerable, you're a pawn in a game of chance. However if you view adversity as an aggressive advantage you will come forth with vigor and education. You will have the realization that soiled moments or passages in our lives can be cleansed and forever inspiring. Once you bathe yourself in the inspiration received you will then find that not all is turmoil and tranquility will soon be a more frequent occurrence. As time passes when someone asks, "Have you exercised your faith in the eyes of adversity?" you can say YES with conviction!
The sooner you take action and put your desires and dreams into play, the sooner you will see that adversity is truly a tool to aid you in your goals. Not only will you be aggressively using it to your advantage but also you will have longer to enjoy your goals and dreams once attained. Every day you allow your life to be ruled by adversity is a day YOU allow to pass without action and a day less you could be living with more joy, less pain and true happiness.
It's a matter of choice. You have the choice to make a difference. You have the choice to change your life. You have the choice to conquer and survive that which plants your feet in sinking sand. You were chosen to make a difference in the lives of others. And most importantly God chose you.
So you can choose today to take control of your life, build upon your dreams and aspirations or you can wait until tomorrow, a tomorrow, which is not promised. Sitting back doing absolutely nothing wallowing in the turmoil that adversity has placed in your lap weighing you down, laughing at you as it takes full control. The choice is yours! Make a difference!!
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Not So Subtle Thoughts
A virgin to the blog, yes that is what I am. So forgive me if I falter.
My mind races with pages of random thoughts, unsure of where to stop or to begin. Will wing it by wondering why so many females will in 'my' opinion degrade themselves to once again in 'my' opinion gain attention.
As I observe a number of women, young ladies, etc. I have noticed many, that have been in a relationship that did not end amicably, tend to offer themselves up to the next available bidder not the highest. I see nothing more than a lot of self-degradation and I don't think they realize it. These young ladies find it increasingly necessary to outwardly express "I need a man!!", " Who wants to be my toy tonight?", "I'm down for the dirty" (I laughed when I heard that one), and in the words of Salt-n-Pepa, "I'll take yo man!!" Really? Is that truly necessary? These phrases don't scratch the surface of what I've heard. The words that escape from the mouths of these ladies is equally as degrading. Sometimes worse than any sailor I have come across(no offense to the sailor).
I wonder if they were to step outside of their box for a few minutes and view their photo op, would they be pleased? Would men 'truly' find this culture of women attractive?
On the flip side, perhaps these tendencies and so called confident traits would be best suited for behind closed doors. I'm inclined to believe an ample amount of men would adore the sauciness of such in their mate.
Keep in mind ladies, just as you may not want or be attracted to the man in the powder blue polyester suit, white socks and black Stacy Adams. The man may not want or be attracted to the woman that wears 'NO CLASS'.
Don't feel that you are losing your identity by not being so crass, it's just a matter of identifying who you really are and wish to be.
Some may be offended others will just ponder. Those that are offended will 9 times out of 10 be those that my thoughts apply to.
I'm just sayin'...an observation made.
My mind races with pages of random thoughts, unsure of where to stop or to begin. Will wing it by wondering why so many females will in 'my' opinion degrade themselves to once again in 'my' opinion gain attention.
As I observe a number of women, young ladies, etc. I have noticed many, that have been in a relationship that did not end amicably, tend to offer themselves up to the next available bidder not the highest. I see nothing more than a lot of self-degradation and I don't think they realize it. These young ladies find it increasingly necessary to outwardly express "I need a man!!", " Who wants to be my toy tonight?", "I'm down for the dirty" (I laughed when I heard that one), and in the words of Salt-n-Pepa, "I'll take yo man!!" Really? Is that truly necessary? These phrases don't scratch the surface of what I've heard. The words that escape from the mouths of these ladies is equally as degrading. Sometimes worse than any sailor I have come across(no offense to the sailor).
I wonder if they were to step outside of their box for a few minutes and view their photo op, would they be pleased? Would men 'truly' find this culture of women attractive?
On the flip side, perhaps these tendencies and so called confident traits would be best suited for behind closed doors. I'm inclined to believe an ample amount of men would adore the sauciness of such in their mate.
Keep in mind ladies, just as you may not want or be attracted to the man in the powder blue polyester suit, white socks and black Stacy Adams. The man may not want or be attracted to the woman that wears 'NO CLASS'.
Don't feel that you are losing your identity by not being so crass, it's just a matter of identifying who you really are and wish to be.
Some may be offended others will just ponder. Those that are offended will 9 times out of 10 be those that my thoughts apply to.
I'm just sayin'...an observation made.
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