Sunday, August 24, 2014

Sunday Morning Muse


While I have scrolled through the Facebook News Feed throughout the week, there is a common theme.
Posts regarding politics, racism, equality, etc.  Questions formulated like “What are you doing to combat violence and racism in your community?”, so forth and so on.

It’s a valid question; however do your answers suggest a solution or additional problems? Or better yet are your answers nothing but fluff?

We speak of how our police officers are here to protect and serve, not kill and serve up on a platter.
We speak of how we are disrespected amongst our peers, being called out of our names, etc.
We speak of how we can’t catch a break because the other man or woman keeps bringing us down.
The list is ongoing. 

Let me ask this, When do WE take ownership in our own actions???  When do we CHANGE our REACTIONS into positive ACTIONS??? 

Observation #1  Those becoming agitated that you are often disrespected are the very same ones posting videos of children and adults TWERKING, thinking its cute. Those posting videos of teenagers, etc. fighting...with the Movie FRIDAY response “You Got Knocked the F@(k Out!"

Observation#2  We still use derogatory terms within our conversations in reference to other races. Yes I’m going to make it real for you.  We use the word Nigga,  Niglet, Cracker, Gringo,  Sambo,  Colored, Towel  Head, Sand Nigger,  Jap,  Chink, Boonga  and Chug just to name a few.  So when you see these names in print I’m sure it angers you.   Take one giant leap and eliminate these from your  vocabulary.  In doing so you are leading by example and perhaps others will follow your POSITIVE LEAD.  And by others, even if it is ONE person that embraces your positive force, that is one difference made that can lead to more.

Observation#3 Our Youth lack respect in themselves and those in authoritative positions.  Again don’t blame others take ownership.  As parents we oftentimes do not take time out with our children as a result of work and financial distress.  Instead of sitting and having a conversation with our children about how things are affecting them, what did they learn in school, etc. We would rather buy them a video game, etc. to pacify them for the lack of time spent.  Instead of providing some structure and morals we push them off on others to do the job WE are meant to do.  I can go on and on with this one, but I will cut it short. So when our youth are caught up in the unrest, be mindful unless you are up close and personal, you do not know the full picture.  

Please keep in mind these senseless killings are nothing new nor do I condone them. However; the only thing new about them is the technology used to publicize them.  Instead of a blurb in the far right corner of the metro section of the news paper, videos are televised.  So if you want things to change...start by NOT FEEDING THE STEREOTYPE. Perhaps I am playing devils advocate with this, but it is what it is.  Two wrongs don't make a right and not everyone is innocent. 

If this Sunday Muse has annoyed you, then hopefully in some way it has provoked thoughtful solutions not fluff.

~~~Skin I'm In~~~




Saturday, August 23, 2014

Shades Of Delight

Shades Of Delight
Cocoa Hue
Drifting Face To Face
My Eyes Led By Sweet Thoughts
Guided My Heart
Back To You

~~~Skin I'm In~~~

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Please and Thank You

Growing up I was taught to say HELLO when you entered a room.  PLEASE and THANK YOU, EXCUSE ME when you belched, burped or expelled gas. MAY I when you asked for things.  You did not interrupt anyone when they were on the telephone, you were taught to hold the door open for others and of course RESPECT YOUR ELDERS and YOURSELF.

What has happened to the core values?  Where is our moral compass?  
We have men and women walking around with their pants at their crotch and their underwear showing...oh, but wait...let me rephrase for those that may read this and not truly feel me.  You are walking around with yo pants hangin' off yo ass and yo drawz (drawers) showing!! Hell even when I'm trying to make a point I still have to write things somewhat proper. What is the significance in the pants at your crotch?  Oh I guess that is your SWAG....Senseless Weak And Gullible!! 

We seem to have a conflict between decent moral behavior and social impotence. I've noticed an influx of rudeness from the millennial generation as well as some of the baby boomers. Too many parents trying to be a friend to their children instead of A Parent. Be a parent first, instill the core values along with discipline.  Teach them to articulate or at least form complete sentences, take them to the library or provide them with a book and actually read it instead of playing video games.  Reading Is Fundamental!! With the core values and good morals comes politeness.  A behavior that seems to be cast by the wayside.  

For the baby boomers, quit acting as though the world owes you everything!! This sense of entitlement you think you have will get you hurt.  Try baby steps to rectify the disconnect..

When someone says 'HELLO' to you, just respond with 'Hello'. No one is requesting you to stop, drop everything and indulge in a Larry King Episode. Just 'Hello'.  Just be polite respect yourself, others and carry on. Please and Thank You!!!!

~~~Skin I'm In~~~

Summer Rain

Listening To The Sound Of The Rain
As It Taps On The Window Pane
The Thunder Roars
Sounding Off, Its Authority Known
Painstakingly Deliberate
So Chilling It Soothes
Every Drip Every Drop
As I Lift My Eyes
Every Beat 
In Sync With My Heart
I'm  Hypnotized
Summer Rain, Summer Breeze
Cover Me Slowly 
Embrace Me Totally
Carry Me Away 
To My Fantasy 

~~~Skin I'm In~~~

Poetry #2

Poetry, a language all its own, 
distilled or fermented like a fine wine, 
Powerful!

~~~Skin I'm In~~~

Monday, August 11, 2014

Freedom

Freedom - The state of being free.  The right to enjoy all the privileges; exemption from external control , regulation or interference . 

We live in a country where we come and go as we please.  Without the constant fear of militants bombing our homes.  We travel at ease on organized highways attending school functions, shopping and dining out without a care in the world.-Freedom.

As we ponder upon the privileges we have do we truly examine our walk of life?  On an individual level freedom is a 'choice' to enjoy life as we know it.  Though we have choices some are shackled by fear, the internal control; therefore freedom becomes non-existent.  

Slaves to love
Slaves to economic grief
Slaves to corporate America
Slaves to peer pressure
Slaves to our own inner struggles

Paralyzed by the fear of losing love, repercussions of speaking out against that which is wrong....paralyzed by hurt and despair.   

Random thoughts - Are we TRULY Free?

~~~Skin I'm In~~~  


Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Trust - The Broken Link

Trust is like a broken fence. If you look hard enough you still see the link. Although it has been repaired it still bares the kink. The kink in the link which brings hesitation in how we think. 

~ ~ ~ Skin I'm In ~ ~ ~

Monday, August 4, 2014

Poetry

You comfort me
You embrace me
You sing to me
You encourage me
When emotions and action's of those have shackled me
You step in and release me
You accept me
You invite me
Into your heart, your home
Known as poetry.

~~~Skin I'm In~~~

Sunday, August 3, 2014

You Don't See Me

As A Child
I Shed My Skin
Beautiful Young Lady
Emptied My Soul 
Skin Bare 
For All To See
I Followed My Heart
Gave You My All 
It's Unfortunate 
You Still Don't See Me

~~~Skin I'm In~~~