I am one that attempts to exhibit a positive attitude most of the time. However one must be realistic. There are times when we are quite pessimistic no matter how hard we try to be that ray of sunshine. We are human, I am human.
This post is one of self counseling if that makes the least bit of sense.
It's difficult to admit when your efforts of love and friendship are going nowhere. You find yourself feeling as though you are an irritant to those you expect to reciprocate the same thoughts and feelings that you exhibit. Through many months or years if you allow it to go on that long you establish finally, to coin a phrase, "They're just not that into you."
Admitting these efforts are futile does not go without pain. Confronting others regarding your efforts and the lack of theirs seems to fall upon deaf ears. Really they owe you absolutely nothing outside of respect. So why waste your breath on confrontation.
It is necessary to break the cycle of contact. The act of initiating the communication whether it be via face to face, phone call, text, email, letter (obsolete) or social media. We can no longer be a slave to the rhythm. As the efforts put forth should not result in one waiting around to hear from the other.
Randomness..
~~~Skin I'm In~~~
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