Is there truly a Miss, Mrs. or Mr. Right?
More of my random thoughts.
Some may ask the question, "Why am I always choosing the wrong person to be in a relationship with?" My question to that question is, "Are you sure you're not choosing the Right Wrong Person?"
Are we seeking different flavors of wrong, thinking that the wrongness is right, because we are dealing with demons within and gravitate to those with similar demons that compliment us? Confusing huh? Such is love.
One would think to seek the love of the person that knows how to give the gift of oneself without the expectation of something in return. However you must know yourself well enough to understand that gift, not reject the gift choosing the art of re-gifting. Not only should we know ourselves, but learn what we want and what we don't want. Perhaps stop being in love with the idea of being in love, falling in love with a facsimile thereof.
We view him/her as our soul mate because we have shared an intimate connection prior to evaluating the future. Think about this, is the one you see as your soul mate your goal mate? In other words, do you share common interests, common goals, chemistry and compatibility? Do you have admiration and respect for him/her or are you just impressed by them?
Keep in mind as you ponder...admiration is to regard with wonder; wherein being impressed is the act of drawing attention. A Mercedes or a Bentley Continental GT is impressive. A woman or man loving God, always smiling, working a full time job, a part time job, going to school part-time and holding it down at home for the family is to be admired!
~~~Skin I'm In~~~
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